If you think only men enjoy a pleasurable session of oral sex, you couldn’t be more wrong, poppet. Women love a good session of cunnilingus, even if it is so-so, ‘coz let’s be honest, that’s about the only way most men know how to get a woman off. But, if you are one of those men who can’t even do that, then this is for you, sugar. Read these tips on how to go down on a woman carefully and engrave them in your brain if you want to keep your lady love happy.
Don’t just get naked and directly hit the clit, darlin’. Start in a comfortable position, after all, you don’t want to crick your neck. Tease your way up to the big finale. Slow and steady is going to win you this race.
Rev up her engine
You want to arouse your girl before you get her off. Don’t hit the vulva directly, instead pay attention to the rest of her body, poppet. Seduce her with your words and actions. Give her neck kisses, glide your hands through her erogenous zones, breathe slightly on her hot spots.
Talk it out
Not every woman likes the same things. So, ask your partner what she wants; it may be clitoral stimulation, extra time on foreplay, or licking around her labia or the vulva. It’s best to ask her what moves give her the most pleasure and go from there, sugar.
Use your fingers
Fingering is just as effective as using your tongue on your partner’s lady bits. So, don’t hesitate to use your fingers to please your girl, poppet. Better yet, use your fingers in tandem with your tongue. You can even stimulate your partner’s nipples and insert a finger or two in the vagina. But, please cut your nails and wash your hands before you go putting your fingers inside your girl’s body, sugar!
Don’t just stick to the clit
Yes, the clitoris is the most sensitive part of the female body, but that doesn’t mean every woman will want the entire focus on the clit. It is the same as men not wanting the focus on the penis head. So, lick around the vulva, and give her a holistic experience, my darlin’.
Don’t hesitate to use a toy
Toys are not your competitors, love. They can be your best partners only if you let them. You can use a dildo or a vibrator to add to her pleasure. It’s an easy move and doesn’t require a whole lot of theatrics.
Feel free to switch things up
Going down on a woman can feel tiring, you may be tired of using your mouth on your partner. When such a situation arises, feel free to switch things up, sugar. She’ll appreciate it, ‘coz she doesn’t want you to think this act is a chore. It would be a lot more exciting and arousing for her if she feels like you are interested in going down on her instead of acting like it’s a huge burden to you.
Pleasure is a shared effort, poppet, and not a singular effort. That’s what masturbation is for. So, take these tips on going down on a woman to heart and practise them. With consent, of course.
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