The new year is all about new goals, eating clean, finding a new exercise routine, and tons of other regular stuff. But this year, pay a little attention to your romantic life and see how you can upgrade that. Whether you are already in a long-term relationship or just started a new relationship, let 2024 be the year you spice up your bedroom shenanigans, sweet pea. So, here are a few things you can do in the Valentine’s season of 2024 to spice up your sex life.

Write your fantasy in detail and share it with your lover

Listen, sweetheart, if you’ve ever read good erotica, you know words can be just as exciting as visuals. So, to spice up your sex life in 2024, take a pen and paper and get started. Write about any one of your fantasies and make it detailed. Add every little thing from what you would wear to how you would smell, from how you want to be touched to how you want to touch your partner. Your words need to turn on your lover.

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Ditch the underwear in public

Go commando in public, and make sure you let your partner know. Whether you are going on a long drive or going out for a date night, the thought of sitting next to your partner without any underwear is a turn-on for both you and your partner. Better yet, ladies, wear a dress so that your partner gets easy access in case you wanna get frisky in public.

Get your flirt on

Listen up, ladies and gentlemen, being in a long-term relationship is no reason to stop flirting. Just because you’ve gotten somebody doesn’t mean you bid romance goodbye. Flirt with your partner. Send them flirty texts, touch them intimately outside of sex, give them seductive eyes, and play footsie at the dinner table. Make it a point to include flirting in your 2024 to-do list.

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Bring out the lube

If you haven’t yet brought lube into your bedroom, now is the time. From solo to couple play, lube can be your best friend, sweetheart. Use flavoured lube during oral sex or any water-based lubricant while masturbating or while you give a handsy to your partner. The options are endless, my darlings. Your lube doesn’t need to only come out when you want to stick things into holes.

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Keep the clothes on

Losing all your clothes while you have sex is so 2023, sweetheart. To spice up your sex life in 2024, try it with some clothes on. From a pair of heels to a tie, keep at least one to two pieces of clothing on while you have sex. Switch things up a bit, and that will make things super exciting.

Have an affair…with your partner

Get creative, my loves, and have a fake affair with your partner. Plan a date night and act as if you are strangers meeting up in a bar. While one person is sitting alone nursing their drink, let the other walk up to them and start a flirtatious conversation. And if things go well, take your partner home, or better yet, maybe hit the loo together and get naughty.

Try new positions

There’s more to sex than just the missionary position, my loves. So, to up your sex life in 2024, move beyond the regular missionary and doggy style. Get creative, switch positions, and maybe even switch locations and see how things heat up. And if you are wondering what more to do other than missionary sex, Madam Eve has a handy guide ready.