Have you ever looked at actors like Pedro Pascal or Jeffrey Dean Morgan and thought, ‘Damn, he is such a daddy’? Well, I sure have, darlin’, and let me tell you, that’s nothing to be ashamed of. Having a daddy kink might raise some eyebrows, but it sure isn’t a result of daddy issues. In fact, daddy kink is just one of the many common fetishes and kinks people have, more so in BDSM. Simply put, daddy kink is an intense attraction to an authoritative figure whom you love calling ‘daddy’ in bed.

It’s not a written rule that only poppets who practise BDSM can indulge in daddy kink. It’s an open buffet, so everyone gets to choose their desires and work them out. If you are ready to dip your toes into this kink, here’s all you need to know.

Daddy kink is genderless

Yup, that’s right, this kink is not just for a heterosexual couple to enjoy. A homosexual or even a poly couple can enjoy this sensual kink. Daddy kink doesn’t discriminate based on gender. So, whoever you choose to do this with, have fun, poppets!

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Dominant partners turn you on

If you are someone who gets turned on by a dominant, authoritative, and wiser partner, you are likely into daddy kink. Traditionally, this kink is all about an older male with an authoritative demeanour, but they don’t always have to be older. You know how ‘top’ and ‘bottom’ in a gay relationship don’t depend on age? The same is the case with daddy kink, poppet.

Roleplay your way into the kink

Listen, if you aren’t into hardcore BDSM, you don’t really want your partner barking orders at you the whole day, do you? So, the best way for you to enjoy this kink is to indulge in sexy roleplay. Get the daddy dom – little girl or little boy fantasy rolling and have some hot, sweaty fun. You also get to play around with the forbidden love fantasy in daddy kink. So, let loose and bring your wildest fantasies to life, poppet.

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It is not incest

Sugar, if you think daddy kink is incest, go wash your brain with soap. It is not! Ahh, the blasphemy! It’s just a dominance-submissive kink and not a desire to cross familial boundaries. The “daddy” in the relationship wants to be in control and give you some orders, and punish you if you don’t follow orders. Don’t go around giving it a Freudian twist, my dear.

Choose a reliable “daddy”

Since this kink is all about an attraction to someone more dominant and authoritative than you, make sure you choose a reliable, understanding, and communicative partner. Like with any other kink, there needs to be open and honest communication between partners to make it work. Apart from sexual intimacy and compatibility, you also need to have a friendship that allows you to converse easily with each other.

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