Sex without foreplay is, quite frankly, boring. And the usual foreplay methods like kissing and caressing can get a little meh after a while. So, it’s important to switch things up every now and then to ensure freshness in the bedroom. One of the best ways to get the engine roaring is temperature play, especially heat play. Using heat on erogenous zones to pump up your partner’s excitement will have them screaming for more. So, here are a few ways you can add heat play into your foreplay routine.
1. Warm oil massage
Giving your partner an erotic massage with some warm oil won’t just turn them on, but it’ll also be quite soothing. So, indulge in an extensive warm oil massage to get your partner all worked up.
2. Massage candles and wax play
Candles are great to set the mood, but massage candles are even better. Massage candles have the dual purpose of setting the mood and cranking up the heat for your partner. Unlike regular candles, the wax from massage candles can be used for a massage once warmed.
You can also get some sex-specific candles to drip on your partner. They usually burn at lower temperatures and hence there is no risk of burning your partner. Ideally, burn the candle at least half an hour before you play. Blow out the candle once you are ready and pour the wax over your partner’s body. Don’t forget to hit all the erogenous zones. Don’t forget to try them on your own body to ensure it’s not too hot. Start with the thighs and back to make your partner squirm with delight.
3. Warming sex toys
Adding a sex toy to your bedroom play can be fun and exciting. It adds to the pleasure. Add a warming sex toy and the heat is turned up several notches. Literally. Some sex toys come with an in-built warming unit. Heated sex toys also have the additional benefit of alleviating menstrual cramps, pain, and soreness. So, you get some relaxation along with pleasure.
4. Hot drinks
Blowing warm breaths on your partner’s body can be a heart-fluttering experience for them. The best way to ensure your mouth is warm is to drink unsweetened hot drinks right before you use your mouth on your partner. Keep a glass of hot water handy, or drink some hot black coffee or tea before you get down to business.
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